Mammalian brain · Relational Manipulation

Love Bombing

Overwhelming attention, praise and generosity early in a relationship — personal or commercial — that creates obligation and dependence before the terms change.

An everyday example

A new vendor's white-glove onboarding, gifts and daily calls, followed by a very different tone once the annual contract is signed.

What it can cost you

Reciprocity and attachment formed before you have seen ordinary behaviour.

Warning signs

  • This feels too good, too fast.
  • I feel I owe them already.

One thing to do

Treat intensity early as data, not as the baseline; withhold long commitments until you have seen how they behave when they want nothing.

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