Reptilian brain · Threat Response

Defensive Aggression

Striking first when threatened, or redirecting fear at a safer target; the anger feels like strength but is fear in motion, and it is easy to provoke on purpose.

An everyday example

Snapping at a junior colleague after a bruising board call, or attacking a vendor over a small error to avoid admitting a bigger one.

What it can cost you

Damaging relationships and decisions to discharge fear; being provoked into looking unreasonable.

Warning signs

  • I am angrier than the situation deserves.
  • I picked a target that could not fight back.

One thing to do

When you want to attack, find the fear underneath; act on that instead.

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