Reptilian brain ยท Urgency & Deception Tactics

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Wording the decline option to make you feel foolish or selfish for choosing it: 'No thanks, I don't want to save money.'

An everyday example

'No, I prefer paying full price' as the only way to close a discount pop-up.

What it can cost you

Accepting to avoid a small sting of shame the copy manufactured.

Warning signs

  • I hesitated over a button because of how it was worded.
  • I felt judged by a pop-up.

One thing to do

Read the decline as a plain 'no' and click it; the shame is a sentence someone wrote, not a fact about you.

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