Cultural brain ยท Rituals, Gifts & Life Scripts

Wedding Signaling

Weddings and courtship are stages for status display and mate-market signalling; the industry prices the display, and the couple pays for an audience.

An everyday example

A wedding budget set by what guests will think rather than what the couple wants.

What it can cost you

Debt for a day of signalling; conflating love with display; consumption steered by courtship anxiety.

Warning signs

  • The budget is about the guests.
  • The script came from a magazine.

One thing to do

Decide what the event is for and who it is for; budget from that, not from the industry's script.

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